Diary of a Kinky Curly Transitioner

Black Friday=Black Friday internet sales

November 27, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Ouidad

Discover Ouidad’s six new limited-edition holiday gift sets that celebrate curls this season! Value price sets from $25-52

UrbanBella
-First 10 Phyto Purchases receive a tote bag.
-Miss Jessie’s BOGO Event starts on Friday (also happening on Miss Jessie’s website and CurlMart)
-New Tiny Twirls line. Limited Edition Set has all three products and detangling comb free.
-Hair Rules Deluxe Gift Set includes your choice of styling product and leave-in conditioner or hydrating finishing cream.
-Giveaways every hour for $50 – $100 in retail products or salon services
-Lots of food and great music with all of the above going on and much more on Friday starting at 11 am until 5 PM.
Jane Carter
Purchase Any Item from our collection of natural hair care products and get the second one for half price. This offer is for web or phone orders ONLY. Offer is for 50% off all retail prices including regimens, travel kits and survival kits.  Code: thanks09 thru 11.29.09
AfroVeda
No need to keep quiet any more!  AfroVeda’s Black Friday sale will begin at 12:01am on Friday, November 27!  Shop for all your favorite items through Sunday, November 29 and enjoy discounts from 10-25%.  A great time to stock up for the holidays.  Not sure what to get?  We’ve added convenient gift certificates in denominations to suit everyone! Order intake will be suspended until Nov. 27 to ship existing orders and prepare for this sale. All products will appear as “not orderable” until Nov. 27!
Qhemet Biologics
20% off Friday 11/27 coupon code is CULTURE. Order intake will be suspended from 11/4-11/26 to ship existing orders and prepare for our Black Friday Sale! All products will appear as “out of stock” until 11/27!
Oyin Handmade:
November 27-21– 15% black friday coupon code active ONLINE ONLY. watch latest podcast for the code!

Karen’s Body Beautiful
10% off entire store, no minimum purchase. Coupon code “Thanks”. Free shipping with $75 purchase.
There are much much MORE happening–be sure to check out KCurly’s post on New Natural (link below) for more information!
Sources:
-my email
-New Natural’s post here
-The Peach Post’s post here

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Rant: Will it ever be “Just Hair™”

November 26, 2009 · Leave a Comment

This paragraph was taken from one of Naturally Leslie’s articles in The Coil Review:

“Some people opine that spending time talking about hair is silly in a world of poverty and war, but when it comes to Afro textured locks, it is not “just hair”. If it were, women would not agonize over the decision to go natural and there would be no serious ramifications from choosing to do so.”

And I agree with her! Talking about hair and treating it like a prized possession in a world wrecked with destruction seems silly–but I know I do it because 1) it makes me feel beautiful and 2) it’s not Just Hair.  I can’t help but wonder when my ‘fro will JUST be hair. Or what it would like to live in a “Just Hair” world. Can you imagine a world without dirty looks and mean comments about your hair? Or a place where strangers won’t just TOUCH IT because it looks different? Or when I suddenly won’t be this deep, earthy, chick or a black power figurehead because I’m rocking an epically BAA?

I think it will only happen when black women are educated about their hair and their hairstyle options. I think this will only happen once every negative stereotype—from it’s nappy, it’s hard to comb (no, it’s not. You’ve been doing it wrong), it doesn’t grow (really? I’m sure mine grows..), etc—is proven wrong TO THEIR FACES. Maybe not on their own head, but on the heads of the women AND men around them.

When do you think black women’s hair will just be hair? Ever? When a majority is natural? When everyone can accept that it’s not ugly, unmanaged or difficult?

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Natural hair and dance/exercise

November 21, 2009 · 2 Comments

On my reader’s input post (which you should all read and comment on!) JC wanted to hear/see:

“I would love to see more about you and your hair (including if you still dance and how your hair handles it).”

I DO still dance. Not as much as I would like since I’m trapped in labs this semester (boo!), but I’m still dancing. Since my hair is short, I tend to wear it out during rehearsal. I’ll pin the front/bang/fringe area out of the way if I’m wearing my hair semi-stretched or wear an elastic headband to keep the back from getting frizzy from the sweat on my neck. Since I have a few rehearsals/class in the morning, I’ll usually wear my hair in two puffs because that’s how I sleep at night! I’ll put a little leave in conditioner to keep my hair from looking TOO bed head-y.

Post rehearsal routine? Cowash, twist on damp hair, wait a few hours, untwist, get about my day. Seriously. My hair isn’t long enough to worry about washing too much or wearing it out.

I’m sure as my hair gets longer, I’ll have to think more seriously about dancing and exercise and my routine, but until then. It’s all good in my studio!

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Product Review: Curl Gel-les’c

November 17, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Advertised: It isn’t a gel, and not quite a serum it’s Curl Gel-les’c (pronounced Curl Jealousy). This botanically based, organic curl styler imparts brilliant sheen, banishes frizz, and holds those twirls in place! Great for humid climates. Transform dry frizzy locks into the enviable curls that every woman dreams of, with Curl Gel-les’c. Go ahead, your curls deserve it!

Price: $25.00 for 8 oz

Ingredients: Purified Water, Polyquaternium-11, Sorbitol, Certified Organic Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Juice, Polyquaternium-37, Vegetable Glycerin, Certified Organic Coconut Milk ( Cocos Nucifera Fruit Juice), Certified Organic Linden Seed Oil ( Tilia Cordata Flower Extract), Certified Organic Flaxseed Oil ( Linum Usitatissimum Seed Oil, Certified Organic Chamoile Extract (Anthemis Nobilis Flower Extract) Certified Organic Rosemary Extract (Rosmarinus Officinalis Leaf Extract), Phenoxyethanol, Caprylyl Glycol.

Review: Yay free samples! Because seriously $25 for 8oz is a LOT of money for something so itty bitty. It literally feels and looks like a serum. I was a little hesitant because this “serum” is supposed to provide hold and definition and I’ve never managed to get either from one before.

I cowashed and detangled in 4 sections with Hello Hydration and twisted my hair into 4 big bun-esque twists while it was still wet. When I stepped out of the shower, I took down each section and applied some Qhemet Biologics Burdock Root Cream as a leave in conditioner. THEN applied Gel-les’c (still in sections) and ran a wild toothed comb through each section to make sure it was completely detangled. All four sections took maybe twenty minutes tops. I didn’t really need a lot of product, I just used the overflow from me trying to open the package and having some of it spill out!

The first thing I noticed, my hair was hanging. When my hair is wet, it hangs to just above my eyelashes. Usually when I do a wash and go, it hangs out like that for about 6 minutes and then shrinks all the way back to my scalp. When my hair was completely dry, it DID shrink, but only to my eyebrows.

As for the hold, I tested this when I had a dance performance. Since it’s a zombie/underworld inspired contemporary ballet piece, I figured if it had NO hold it would still be ok since I’m supposed to look like the Night of the Living Dead/Thriller. Amazingly, it held! It was a soft hold so my hair did frizz a little by the end of the show but it wasn’t as awful as I expected results from a serum would be.

Day two hair didn’t have ANY of the hang from Day 1. Which was a little disappointing, but my hair still had a decent amount of definition and was soft. I didn’t get my usual 4-5 days out of my wash and go. I got maybe about 3 before it started getting really fluffy. Which isn’t bad, but it’s not super great either.

I don’t think I’ll but this product. I’ve heard it’s comparable to Kinky Curly’s Curling Custard (next to try list!) which is cheaper per ounce and has better ingredients.

Note: Thank you so much for making the move with me! I’m currently working on a new banner/header and I’m really excited with the changes that are going to be happening! Keep your eyes out for them =)

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This is not hair related…

November 13, 2009 · 1 Comment

This is Keepon.
So what is it?
Keepon is a small yellow robot designed to study social development by interacting with children. Keepon was developed by Hideki Kozima (小嶋 秀樹 Kojima Hideki?) while at the National Institute of Information and Communications Technology (NICT) in Kyoto, Japan. Keepon has four motors, a rubber skin, two cameras in its eyes, and a microphone in its nose.
In the context of Kozima’s “Infanoid” project, Keepon has been used to study the underlying mechanisms of social communication. Its simple appearance and behavior are intended to help children, even those with developmental disorders such as autism, to understand its attentive and emotive actions. The robot, usually under the control of a teleoperator, has interacted with children in schools and remedial centers for developmental disorders since 2003. (Taken from Wikipedia)



Ok, seriously, I NEED ONE!!

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How I did my wash and go in fall/winter

November 11, 2009 · 1 Comment

Fall/winter isn’t prime time for a wash and go. Wet hair is a major no-no when it’s snowing or just plain cold (unless you’re trying to catch a cold or worse…).  My winter routine was very similar to my usual wash and go with a few different (and important!) steps in the middle. However, my hair is too long for me to wear a straight wash and go like I did in my TWA days (I miss the good ol’ days..) So this is basically what I did right after I BCed (I BCed in the middle of winter).  


1) Follow steps 1- 6 but skip 5 from my wash and go tutorial   
                                                

2) Baggie over night! When hair is fairly damp (just past the dripping stage) put on a shower cap and make sure it stays in place with the help for a skinny head band. Place a satin SCARF/ head wrap over the whole thing.  To make sure your pillow won’t get wet; place a really soft towel or fabric of the like over your pillow. Another way to do this is double up on scarves/wraps. This will help moisturize your hair which is very important when it’s cold and dry out.


3)  Night night. Sleep tight. Don’t let the bed bugs bite.


4) When you wake up in the morning, get dressed and carefully remove your scarf and shower cap. Carefully shake your curls out of the helmet matt you’ve created.  A spray bottle will make your life easier and help with getting the most definition. Then use a spray gel–this won’t provide a lot of hold, but it will provide enough for a defined but fluffy wash and go–and gently scrunch. I used John Frida Dream Curls Curl Perfecting Spray but you can make your own by mixing some gel, oil and water together (working on a recipe for this as we speak!).


5) Take a blow dryer with a diffuser attachment, set on low, and dry until roughly 70%-85% dry. ONLY IF YOU’RE IN A HURRY! Otherwise, try to let your hair air dry.


6) Go about your business, eat breakfast, pack your bags, find your keys, etc. By the time you’re done, your hair is probably dry enough to go outside without fear of sickness.


7) Have a nice day!


If all goes well, this will last me about 5 days with day 5 being a semi-defined wash and go. For days 6 and 7, I usually wear a beanie or a hat with a satin bonnet. 

In REAL winter aka once the snow hits the ground or my big ol’ winter coat makes an appearance, I don’t bother wearing my hair out at all. I do all the steps above and then slap a bonnet under a beanie or scarf and go about my day. It’s too cold to bother with making my hair look defined. I don’t want my head to freeze and no one is going to see it anyways!

A collection of cute beanies REALLY makes keeping this fun and cute easy. But, if you only want or have the basic beanies, you can pin pins to your beanie or wear a patterned scarf under the beanie and let that peak out. Lately I’ve been looking at underscarves (I love youtube’s very own makeup guru makeupadkit’s especially this one/combination and I’ve seen students at my school with some truly beautiful ones)  as another way to possibly jazz up my plain beanies. Not sure if this would be offensive or not though…

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198….199….200 followers! That’s right 200 followers! Thank you so much everyone for reading, commenting, sharing your stories and asking your questions. This blog wouldn’t be where it is now if it wasn’t for your help. It’s an honor to write for you all!

xoxo
    -Alice

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Hair Idol: Le Coil

November 8, 2009 · 2 Comments

Le Coil is not a person.

It’s a website showing many different street snaps, editorials, celebrities and event photos from around the wold with one thing in common. Everyone is natural. Some have locs, twists, fros, wash and gos and much much more. It’s a great site when you’re looking for hair style ideas and inspiration. What I really like about them is they tell you the persons name and if they have a blog or website, share the link so you can check them out later.

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Product Review: Qhemet Biologics Burdock Root Butter Cream

November 6, 2009 · 1 Comment

Advertised: Lighter than the Amla & Olive Heavy Cream, this lusciously rich formula softens and nourishes normal to dry hair.


Ingredients: distilled water, olive oil, extracts of burdock root, nettle and oatstraw, msm sulfur, vegetable glycerine, cetearyl wheat straw glycosides, cetearyl alcohol, cetyl alcohol, stearyl alcohol, conditioning emulsifier, vitamin e, lactic acid, maltodextrin, phenoxyethanol & ethylhexyglycerine (Mild, Food Grade Paraben-free and Formaldehyde-free Preservative), essential oil blend.


Price: 2 oz $5.50, 8 oz $16.00


Review: It took FOREVER to get here. Seriously, I ordered this on September 30th and I got it on October 13th (When I write it, it doesn’t look so bad but I HAD TO WAIT FOR IT and I’m low on leave-in conditioner!!). Anyways, it got here and guess what. The jar was cracked. Yup, there is a big old ugly crack in the side. Luckily, there is a “jar within a jar” system (I don’t know what it’s called) and the second jar DIDN’T crack, so I think I’m going to be ok. I taped over it with packing tape and it looks normal now and seems to be holding up fine.


Sent wise, it’s really light. Faintly lemon-y. And it’s full to the brim. I don’t know how generous they usually are, but they were REALLY generous with mine (to make up for the cracked jar perhaps?) It’s really thick. It felt more like body butter than leave-in conditioner.


I did 4 flat twists on damp hair after applying this product and took them out when they were about ¾ of the way dry. Even without other products, it had a surprising amount of hold. My hair didn’t shrink up at all and frizz was relatively no existent. However, I think I used too much. My hair was CRUNCHY. Not the most pleasant feeling.

Test 2: Wash and go. I co-washed and slapped this in while my hair was damp and sealed with olive oil. My shrinkage was about half of what I usually get for a wash and go and it was completely frizz free! I used much less than I used last time, so my hair wasn’t crunchy at all. It was very soft, fluffy and shiny.
This product is highly concentrated, I only needed a little for twists and wash and goes. Otherwise, Crunch City. On the bright side, that means this might ACTUALLY last me all winter and into spring! 


Note: I couldn’t find good pictures of the product alone, so here is a collection!

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Rant: Zahara Jolie-Pitt’s hair

November 4, 2009 · 2 Comments

Background: Zahara is a 4-year-old Ethiopian girl adopted by The Jolie-Pitt Clan. And she’s as cute as a button.


See, cute as a button!

But, she’s been getting a lot of flack lately (I know right, who bashes a 4 year old!) because her hair isn’t “brushed” or “done” or “covered in barrettes” like a normal 4 year old. 

You know what I was doing when I was four? Sand box. Swing. Mud pit. Repeat until bedtime. Maybe throw in a bath for good measure. I don’t remember when I started school, but I think it was around three and it still went as follows: sand box. Swing. Class. Lunch. Sand box. Swing. Home. Mud pit. Now, I’m pretty sure the daughter of two celebrities isn’t living like I did, but I’m pretty sure a wash and go works for her just like it worked for me. Why? Because no 4 year old wants to be bothered with sitting perfectly still for 3+ hours doing her hair. Period. 

Seriously, she’s FOUR. There is no reason to be going OMG DO HER HURRR! What if she WANTS her hair to look like that? What if she LIKES it!  I wore my hair out, natural and loose ALL THE TIME when I was little. I used to CRY when my mom made me “wear it up” (seriously, I was NOT having that when I was little.)

And don’t even think about suggesting a 4 year old relax her hair. Don’t. Start. With. Me. That’s a whole ‘nother rant itself. 

But what REALLY got to me: 

“Zahara is not even old enough to know that her hair looks dry and damaged as it stands straight up on her head. But there will come a day when this beautiful little African girl will understand what it means to be an African-American woman in this society and realize unlike her younger sister, hers is not a wash-and-go world.”



WAIT?! SERIOUSLY!? I LIVE IN A WASH-N-GO WORLD. ARE YOU TELLING MY REALITY IS FAKE! HAVE I TAKEN THE BLUE PILL!? You know what else I can do in my world? I can have a Mohawk all weekend, a wash and go Monday, braids on Wednesday, Fro on Friday kinda world. And you know what else my world is?  It’s FABULOUS. 

The only advice I have for her family: you might want to look into a better leave in conditioner. Occasionally her hair looks dry. Also, according to your interviews, she’s already starting asking questions about why her hair doesn’t look like Mommy’s. PLEASE instill self-confidence in her now, tell her she (and her hair) is beautiful. Give her the strength to stand up for her afro when she gets older (if SHE choose to keep it that way) because she’s going to have to deal with ugly people saying ugly things about her hair. 

She looks happy. She looks healthy. She looks like she WANTS her hair to be in a wash and go. Who are you to fume over the fact she doesn’t want 40 bajillion hair ties, a press and curl or twists?

Source

More Responses:
Everything that comes up on Newsweek’s “Good Hair” tag (where the article was originally posted)

An open appeal to the Jolie-Pitt Hair Police

[EDIT] YAY! The coding errors are fixed =) 

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For other bloggers that post product reviews:

November 2, 2009 · 4 Comments

The Federal Trade Commission on Monday took steps to make product information and online reviews more accurate for consumers, regulating blogging for the first time and mandating that testimonials reflect typical results.
The FTC will require that writers on the Web clearly disclose any freebies or payments they get from companies for reviewing their products. The commission also said advertisers featuring testimonials that claim dramatic results cannot hide behind disclaimers that the results aren’t typical.
The FTC said its commissioners voted 4-0 to approve the final guidelines, which had been expected. The guides are not binding law, but rather interpretations of law that hope to help advertisers comply with regulations. Violating the rules, which take effect Dec. 1, could result in various sanctions including a lawsuit.
Testimonials have to spell out what consumers should expect to experience with their products. Previously, companies had just included disclaimers when results were out of the ordinary — such as a large weight loss — noting that the experience was not typical for all customers.
Testimonial advertisements can be effective for consumers since they show others talking about their experiences, giving hope to the consumer that they’ll have that experience too. But they are misleading to consumers if they don’t disclose what they should truly expect to experience, the commission said.
For bloggers, the FTC stopped short of specifying how they must disclose conflicts of interest. Rich Cleland, assistant director of the FTC’s advertising practices division, said the disclosure must be “clear and conspicuous,” no matter what form it will take.
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I’m not sure how many of you this will effect, but it’s good to know.

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